Saturday, November 1, 2014

Traditional Ways to Remember the Dead in Modern Days

by Marie Uy

As 21st century came, undas has been like a holiday celebrated like a family gathering by most Catholic-Christian Filipino families. The following images present the traditional ways in commemorating undas, but are inspired by the new trends.

1. Pray for the soul. This man is praying the rosary while kneeling for the soul of his beloved one. He maintains a solemn and serious aura while praying and looking at the tombstone of his departed. Prayers are what the departed ones need the most.

2. Make it presentable. The family member of the departed asks the helpers to clean the tomstone to make it presentable. She watches over them as they scrub each letter of the epitaph. The departed ones would appreciate it if their tomstones are readable.

3. Keep the graves clean. Cleanliness should also be maintained even in the final resting place of the departed. The man cleans the grave of his departed as he sweeps on a plastic "thrown away" by the wind. 

4. Decorate the flowers. Flowers signify remembrance and care if offered to departed ones. This little boy arranges the flowers he picked around the tombstone. 

5. Get candles. Candles are always present on solemn moments like undas. The man gets the candle holder to light it up just like the other candles to offer to his departed one.

6. Be artistic. The grave was designed with hearts made from petals of different-colored roses, which shows effort in showing how much the family of this departed person cares for her. Simple efforts like this can be appreciated by the departed ones, and also by the living ones who pass by it.

7. Light it up. Lighting of candles has always been a tradition on solemn events like this. It is believed that lightened candles bring light to the departed and guide them on their journey in afterlife. This man lights up a candle for his departed one. 

8. Commemorate with the family. A family that prays together stays together. A family that commemorates together stays stronger. This family spends their Nov.1 together on the tombs of their departed.

9. Don't forget to bring fresh flowers. Flowers are much appreciated if they are fresh. It will last longer and smell more fragrant. The man carries two baskets of fresh flowers on the entrance to Loyola Memorial Park for his departed on Nov.1. 

10. Bring protection from weather. The weather in the Philippines changes from time to time. Protection from all kinds of weather should be prepared. When going to the cemetery, it is recommended to set up tents and bring umbrellas.

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